How To Live In The Social Media Matrix

That thing with that guy take this video and explain what The Matrix is the whole video. Probably.

All the parts. What do you think? That's a good video, Michael. So we're living in the social media matrix. What does that mean? And maybe like fourteen seconds on the matrix. Okay. Can you do matrix in fourteen seconds?

I'll just do one part of the matrix. So the matrix is a thing that is computers.

For some reason, people power it. Yes. And they don't really there's a lot of details left out on how this came to be. Sure. But the idea is it is this big overlord thing and all these people are trapped in it and it's feeding off their energy. Yes. That's what is what we mean by the matrix in this. Where the batteries and the robots are harvesting our energy.

Yeah. That's right. Great. So the analogy here is social.

media are the robots harvesting.

human energy. Yep. Michael and I know a fair amount about social media companies. Sure. We we've started some ourselves and still is involved with one of the better known ones. And the idea is at a social media company, you are not creating the content. You have a website and people post things to the website.

Every time someone posts content, it creates page views or whatever you want to call it in a mobile app. And you can put ads on those things. And it costs you nothing. You don't pay anyone to create those page views. And you make slivers of opinion on every ad that's displayed. That's it. That's the business. It's that And so you need people to post a lot.

Yes.

I think this is the challenge. Right? We're all living in this society where these very large and powerful businesses need us all to post a lot. Yes. And we have to ask ourselves the question, what is the value exchange?

And how maybe are we how do we be careful we're not doing secret harms to ourselves? Yep. How do think about that? So I think it's first being aware of the fact that everything you post, including this video Yes. Is like ending up on the internet somewhere that is monetized by someone else. Like Google is making money off this I suppose. That's the whole idea here.

And when the robots take over they're going to see this and we're on a list somewhere. That's exactly right. Yes. And so first like, hey, that's the truth. We're not kidding. This is actually how this works. And they're not selling your data, right? That's not the business model.

It's more of just page views driven. They're selling everyone's eyes looking at your posts. That's right. And then realize that there's all of these negative externalities, meaning side effects that are bad to say in layman's terms Yes. Yes. That you might not realize by doing this stuff. And so I think most younger folks are aware of being careful with their photos of themselves and putting Yes.

Their faces and things and having like fake Instagrams and all, you know. I think That's gotten out there. I think so. Yes. News is out. The news is out. Yes. That's for the last decade, the news has been out.

But we have like some advice here. We have a more nuanced view of how how to think about this stuff. And maybe the best way to think about it is to realize a few things. One, everything you post to the internet is forever and even if you think it is deleted, there's a bunch of bots and scrapers that cache it This.

is becoming more of a problem. Yes. Well,.

every AI company, the way it's been trained historically is it's trained on like Reddit posts and Twitter posts and all that good stuff. This is a fact. You know, you can look into this. And every blog post and every Usenet post. This is the training corpus that you train AI on. And so even if you think you delete it, there's real time scrapers looking for stuff.

Even it gets deleted, it's in the database. So that's one thing. Yep. And then two, the tools are getting better and better and better at sort of de anonymizing people. Yes. If you post a lot, even if you think you're anonymous, they can look at language patterns, they can look at time of day.

There's all these different ways that you can do today and in the future I anticipate it will only be more powerful.

Let me say something controversial. Right? Like, you know you should be careful about your photos. We're living in a world where you probably need to be careful about your thoughts. Yes. At least your publicly stated thoughts, which feels weird for me to say. Like we're free. Yeah.

It's America. I shall be able to say Watch out what I said in front of Alexa because Sorry. There's no Alexa. There's no Alexa. We're good. Alright. It's just Alright. I guess, you know, you are free to say your thoughts.

You're probably more free to say your thoughts than any time in history. But your thoughts can be used against you. Well, and the point we're trying to make on this is you have a permanent record. And to pretend like you don't,.

I would argue as being pretty naive. Yes. Yes. And so just let's be real. You have a permanent record on the internet. Yes. And you someday are likely going to have to explain to someone, your kids or someone, your employer, about stuff you posted ten or fifteen or twenty years ago. Or ten days ago.

Ten days ago or this morning. Yes.

This sounds like a warning, but let's twist this into a positive. Like, if you use this strategically, it can help Yeah.

If you're aware of this phenomenon and you are comfortable posting things that you do think are defensible Yes. Or things that showcase your talents or skills or your thoughts or your writing You can be noticed. That is a great corpus Yes. To have on the internet to be remembered by forever. Again Yes. Paul Graham, not writing a lot of essays as much these days. He's writing a few. Yep.

But he has this great body of work of Yes. Amazing essays he wrote over the years. And he's still changing people's lives by his writings. Literally, yeah. Literally. Yes. And so if you're thoughtful about the stuff that you're putting on there, either anonymously or non anonymously, it could be great for your career. It could be great for your life.

You can meet interesting people. It's an amazing thing. So we like this stuff. Right? We use social media. This is a We do. We're making a video and we're putting it on the internet here. We do.

We're contributing We're the matrix. Have to answer for what we say in this video. Yes. What's tricky is that the the platform.

charitably, the platform is indifferent. Yeah. Charitably as long as you're generating ad views the platform doesn't really care whether you are harming yourself. Yeah. And so you have to care and I think that that's the kind of point we're trying to make and it's so visceral when it comes to photo. You don't want to be photoed drinking. You don't want be photoed in an awkward position.

But, like, I think there are so many examples of people publicly trolling, publicly saying things they would never say if they weren't anonymous and thinking it's free. Thinking that like they like, I can't be caught And almost imagining.

that your Internet persona and your real life persona are different people. Again, maybe people get that, but I remember when Twitter came out thinking it was weird to meet people that knew me from the internet. Yep.

And I think we've been living our current lives for a long time when we The internet's real, Things I say on the internet have a very real impact on my day of walking around on the streets. Yes. And I think some folks have never experienced that. And so you almost have this like split brain thing. Yes. Woah, this is my internet life. Yes.

And I do all these things on the internet and this is my real life and these are unrelated identities that I have. And that's going away. I I think it's not real. I think you have to realize that.

things on the internet are real. So I think one of the big takeaways here is that it's a double sided coin. Literally, there's a lot more risk posting on social media now, but you can extract.

literally tons of benefit, like way more benefit than maybe people would imagine. Yeah. If you think of this as having a permanent record on the internet forever that's attached to you and you see that as a good thing, not a bad thing Yeah. You can actually build a large corpus of writing.

Also, GitHub is something that already people are scraping, recruiters are scraping of trying to find who to hire. If you just keep posting good code to GitHub over a long amount of time, it's going to pay huge dividends for you and your career as a programmer. And so, yeah, just realize that you have this permanent record and intentionally and thoughtfully put stuff on there. We do this ourselves.

We're making these videos. We put out other things on social media. We do public speaking. And we do our best to put things on our permanent record that we're proud of. Yeah. And.

we're careful because we know that this stuff lives forever and because we know that sometimes there's time for public thoughts and sometimes there's time for private thoughts. Yep. You want to make sure that you understand that and you act that way before you get burned. Right? It that's an easy lesson to learn post Yeah. Getting burned. Yeah. You don't need to learn it the hard way.

Yeah. This is one of those. You can just Yeah. Take people's word for it. You can. You can. And and and your life might go easier. Alright.

Great chat, Dalton. Thanks.